Can you believe we're already halfway through the year?
Just like you might review your finances or personal goals, June is the perfect time for a "mid-year marriage check-up." It's a chance to pause, assess where you are, and ensure you're heading in the direction you desire as a couple.
This post is the first of four vital topics we'll be covering this June, all designed to help you take stock and strengthen your relationship.
Today, we're doing a quick check-up. But you need to be ready to ask yourself: "Where are you and your partner now, and where have you been?"
Let's dive in:
Reflect & Celebrate Your Wins
Take a look at the first half of this year.
What triumphs have you and your spouse experienced together? Maybe you found a new, creative way to connect or celebrated a significant milestone.
And what challenges have you overcome together? What have you learned about each other or your relationship that's made you stronger?
This is a great time to celebrate your wins, big or small. Acknowledging your successes builds positive momentum.
Identify Growth Areas
Now, let's consider areas that might need a little more attention.
- Has communication drifted?
- Are you making enough quality time for each other?
- How about intimacy or shared goals?
Relationships naturally have their ups and downs; it's recognizing these natural shifts that truly kick off the journey towards growth and deeper connection.
Quick "Temperature Check" Questions
To help guide your discussion and make it productive, here are a few simple questions for you and your partner to ask each other:
- "What's one thing I've done this year that you've really appreciated?"
- "What's one area you feel we could strengthen as a couple?"
- "On a scale of 1 to 10, how connected do you feel we've been recently?"
- "What's one small thing we could do together in the next week to feel more connected?"
Your Mission: Schedule a Check-In!
I challenge you to set aside a dedicated "marriage check-in" date night or at least a focused time for a good conversation.
This isn't about finding fault or pointing fingers, but about creating a safe space to reflect, celebrate, and reaffirm your commitment to growing together.
This powerful reminder highlights that your marriage is often the foundation for everything else you build in life. Give it the intentional care it deserves.
I welcome your comments below.
- What was one win you celebrated in the first half of the year? Reply to let me know.
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Nick Gonzalez
Author | NickGonzalez.com
Empowering Couples to Build Thriving, Faith-Filled Relationships
Author | NickGonzalez.com
Empowering Couples to Build Thriving, Faith-Filled Relationships
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