
My recent vacation reminded me that some opportunities won't last forever. If you're married or engaged, this is a heartfelt plea and a practical guide to embrace connection now. Learn three easy ideas to make time for what truly matters.
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A little boy once asked his father, "Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?" The father replied, "I don't know, son; I'm still paying for it.”
That classic joke hits home because, for many, marriage can feel like a never-ending expense, both financially and emotionally. The truth is, marriage is often as hard as we choose to make it. But here's the real secret, the "ingredient" that changes everything: valuing your spouse.
In marriage, valuing your partner isn't just a nice idea; it's the solid ground your relationship needs to truly thrive. It's the very first step toward building something strong and lasting together.
When we talk about valuing our spouses, it simply means treating them with respect and kindness. It's about making sure our words and actions always show how much we appreciate them, consistently letting them know they matter.
What Pets Can Teach Us About Valuing
Now, think about this for a moment: We often show incredible affection to our pets. Dog lovers, for example, know how to truly value their furry friends. No matter how busy or tired they are, they'll stop to cuddle, whisper sweet nothings, and genuinely connect before moving on with their day. It makes you wonder, doesn't it? If we could bring even a fraction of that consistent, open affection into our marriages, imagine the profound difference it would make.
This pet lover's example isn't about shaming anyone, but instead highlighting how easily we can extend unwavering value when our hearts are fully engaged. Let's dive into the three key reasons why this core behavior—valuing your spouse—is so incredibly important in building a truly wonderful world within your marriage.

I once told my wife she reminded me of Wonder Woman, thinking I was scoring major husband points. Her response? "I don't want to be Wonder Woman; I want you to help me!" That day, I learned a valuable lesson about marriage that went beyond any book...

Have you ever questioned the effectiveness of prayer when faced with a seemingly unchanging situation?
This is the question that lies at the heart of my journey as I pray for my wife, Marisol, who has been living with Alzheimer's disease since 2017. It's an excruciating journey, and while Alzheimer's is incurable on Earth, my hope, anchored in the goodness and sovereignty of God, compels me to pray despite the despair.

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