Mother's Day is over, but for married parents, does the appreciation end too? I don't think so, at least not for wise couples.
Did Mother's Day Really End? Not for Married Couples.
That spirit of acknowledging motherhood resonates daily through your partnership in raising kids, long after that one Sunday. Teamwork in parenting is the key constant foundation of a strong marriage.
My Wife, Wonder Woman.
I learned a valuable lesson about teamwork in marriage years ago when our four children were all under ten. I was watching TV on the couch, enjoying my time, resting. I saw my wife cooking, cleaning, and caring for our kids.
I noticed that she was a little frustrated, so I thought it would be a good time for me to encourage her, especially since I had been reading marriage books on that topic.
So, I told her, "Marisol, I just want to let you know that I love you and appreciate all that you do. As a matter of fact, you are so good at what you do, you remind me of Wonder Woman." I thought to myself, "I'm good. Surely, she would be encouraged by my wonderful words of affirmation." She quickly responded, "I don't want to be Wonder Woman; I want you to help me!"
That day, I learned a valuable lesson more than any book about marriage. I learned that encouraging words are great, but picking up a broom and taking out the garbage is much more helpful.
That's why the spirit of Mother's Day—the recognition of a mother's incredible work and dedication—shouldn't be confined to just one day, particularly within the context of a marriage.
Mother's Day & Marriage: The Power of Partnership.
I'm reminded of the scripture in Proverbs 18:22 where Solomon wrote: “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD.”
Here are a few lasting ways husbands can acknowledge the "good thing" in their lives – their wives, their partners in the incredible journey of raising children:
- Share the Work: Keep the helpfulness you showed on Mother's Day going every day. Find regular ways to split up chores around the house, taking care of the kids, and even the mental planning that family life needs.
- Practice Appreciation: Just like you probably thanked her on Mother's Day, make sure to tell her you appreciate her efforts as a mom and spouse regularly. Be sincere with your words, and even better, back them up with your actions.
- Value Her Well-being: Understand that being a mom is constant work. Make a real effort to support her need for time to herself, rest, and doing things she enjoys.
- Be a Present and Engaged Partner: Actively participating in your family's life shows you're a true partner and gives your wife a lot of support.
And finally, here’s an interesting quote for men: "A man has never been shot doing the dishes." – Unknown.
Although humorous, the quote has some truth. Ultimately, celebrating motherhood within a marriage is a continuous journey of shared love, effort, and deep respect. Mother's Day is a beautiful focal point, but the appreciation it embodies should resonate throughout the year.
How do you and your partner actively cultivate this spirit of partnership and mutual support in your parenting journey, long after Mother's Day has passed? What would you say to a newlywed? I'd love to hear your insights.
