Keeping It Real: Embracing Authenticity Over Valentine's Day Illusions

Keeping It Real: Embracing Authenticity Over Valentine's Day Illusions
Valentine's Day often brings to mind big romantic gestures, expensive gifts, and picture-perfect selfies. But beyond the surface of chocolates and flowers, there's a more important truth – one that many couples may miss in the hustle and bustle of the celebration. 

As Valentine's Day approaches, I would like to share one thought about what truly matters in marriage: authenticity.
 
You've probably heard of the expression, "Keep it real." That saying exists because nobody likes a phony. And when it comes to marriage, authenticity is an essential part of the foundation for solid and enduring relationships. 

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Men of Faith: Four Steps to Protect Your Mental Well-being.

Men of Faith: Four Steps to Protect Your Mental Well-being.
Did you know that November is Men’s Health Awareness Month? 

That's right, not only is it a month to celebrate Thanksgiving and Veterans Day, but it’s also a time to bring awareness to this crucial issue. Why? Because men face a higher risk of mortality from leading causes such as heart disease, cancer, accidents, and suicide.

Mental health encompasses a person’s feelings, thought life, and relationships, influencing how you handle stress, make decisions, and navigate challenging situations. When your mental health is good, you feel well, can manage daily tasks effectively, and cope with challenges.”

In this post, I’d like to emphasize the significance of conducting a spiritual health and wellness check-up for men of faith. Because when your spirit is thriving, you are more inclined to address and navigate your mental health challenges effectively.
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Is Your Marriage Haunted? Three Must-Try Strategies to Transform It from Spooky to Spectacular.

Is Your Marriage Haunted? Three Must-Try Strategies to Transform It from Spooky to Spectacular.
Let’s get real for a second, especially as Halloween approaches. Marriage can be like a rollercoaster, right? In the beginning, it’s all sunshine and rainbows, but eventually, even the happiest couples can find themselves in spooky territory.

The good news is that despite all your All-Hallows responsibilities, you can absolutely transform your marriage from spooky to spectacular with a little effort. So, grab a seat, pour yourself a pumpkin-spiced something, relax, and try to be a little lighthearted.

Here are my Three Must-Try Strategies to Transform your marriage from spooky spine-chilling to spectacular sensational.
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Marriage, Caregiving, and Overwhelm.

Marriage, Caregiving, and Overwhelm.
Caregiving can be demanding and time-consuming, often leaving caregivers overwhelmed and making it difficult to keep track of everything. 

It’s important to recognize signs of exhaustion and overwhelm to take care of their own health and well-being.  Here are some common signs to watch out for:
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Marriage and Sibling Rivalry

Marriage and Sibling Rivalry
Every year, April 10th is celebrated as National Siblings Day (at least since 1995.) It’s a day to think about the importance of our brothers and sisters and to celebrate our relationships.

Most of the time, when we hear about sibling rivalry, we think about children fighting. But the truth is that many brothers and sisters fight well into their adult lives.

When we grow up and get married, our relationships with our siblings can become more complicated. Sometimes, getting married can bring siblings closer together, but it can also create problems if one sibling feels left out or if one is less available than before. When brothers and sisters argue for attention or resources (or simply fight), this is called sibling rivalry.
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Marriage and Easter?

Marriage and Easter?
Marriage and Easter may not seem related, but they actually have a deep connection. 

Without Easter and the hope it brings, marriages would lack a very important source of strength. So let's talk about how having faith, especially during Easter, can make your marriage stronger and bring renewed hope and a deeper connection to your marriage.

Easter is a time when many people of the Christian faith come together to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus Christ. As a married couple, sharing a common faith is one of the most powerful ways to strengthen your relationship, deepen your connection, and find hope and meaning in the challenges of life.
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Spring Cleaning Your Marriage: Tips for Decluttering and Organizing Your Relationship.

Spring Cleaning Your Marriage: Tips for Decluttering and Organizing Your Relationship.
Spring is all about new beginnings and new life; it’s a season that symbolizes starting fresh and starting over. 

After months of cold temperatures, spring reawakens us and our surrounding environment, bringing everything back to life.

In the New Testament, the resurrection of Jesus Christ is also associated with the spring season. Jesus was crucified during the Jewish festival of Passover, and his resurrection occurred soon after that. This event is the ultimate symbol of new life and renewal, as Jesus conquered death and was raised to new life.
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Oh boy, here we go – Identity Shifts in Marriage!

Oh boy, here we go – Identity Shifts in Marriage!
Getting married is a momentous occasion that frequently results in significant life changes. 

The joys and challenges of building a life together come with identity shifts that occur as a result of saying two little words, “I-Do.”

Many couples struggle to transition from their former selves to their married identity, which can cause confusion, conflict, and even resentment. Even those who have been married for a while face identity shifts as they transition from one season in life to another.
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Top Ten Marriage Books

Top Ten Marriage Books
Anyone can get married, but it takes work if you want a good marriage. If you want a great marriage, you will need to invest in your relationship. That’s why there’s no need to try to figure things out on your own.

Be wise and learn from others. Get help from those who have already been through where you are at today. If your marriage and family are important to you, there’s no reason to stay stuck.
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Can Marriage be Saved?

Can Marriage be Saved?
Have you ever asked yourself if your marriage can be saved?

If you have, you’re in good company because marriage can sometimes be overwhelming. Asking this question in February may seem out of place due to the recent Valentine’s Day, but the truth is that building a good marriage is difficult.  

Marriage is one of the most significant relationships we can experience in life. And if you are married and in ministry, it should always be the most important ministry. Marriage is a lifelong commitment between two people who vow to love and cherish each other for better or worse, in sickness and health, until death do them part.

Do any of these words sound familiar?
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